Sucking your thumb is an unhealthy habit, just like eating too much junk food, watching too much TV, or even being addicted to a substance. The Mayo Clinic has some great advice on changing unhealthy habits that can be useful here:
- Prepare
The Mayo Clinic recommends setting a goal, and the goal here is pretty clear. You want to stop sucking your thumb. - Plan
It's best to figure out a plan that will work best for you. It doesn't help to feel like you "failed." Unlearning a behavior is a process. Some of you may be able to quit thumbsucking immediately, cold turkey. Others may have more success weaning off of the habit. If you try the latter approach, maybe keep track of when you do it and how long. Tracking your triggers can help you gradually do it less. Whichever approach you take, set a goal and do your best to stick to it. - Experiment
Does painting your thumbnail remind you not to suck your thumb? Maybe wearing a glove when you're most prone to the behavior will help. - Assess
At the end of each week, think about how you did and consider ways you can improve. If you didn't do as well as you had hoped, don't beat yourself up over it. Stay positive and know that this is a process. Next week, you can do better.
You may want to consider working with a therapist to help you pinpoint what drives your habit. Together, you can develop a plan that fits your individual needs and concerns. Thirty days is a common benchmark for creating healthy habits. Do your best to get to thirty days without thumbsucking, and you may be surprised how easy it gets from there (and if you slip up, don't worry – you did it once, you can do it again). You can do this!